For the love of... not being able to count on someone you thought you could.

Don't you hate it when that happens?  You rely on someone for something and they drop the ball?  Not even drop the ball but don't even turn to look at it?  Here's the bottom line... if you can't do something, if you don't want to do something then JUST SAY SO!  I thought if I put this out there in BlogVille that it might help me not be so damn angry about it.  What really makes me even more pissy is that I ASKED before I lobbed the ball!